What should you know?

You should know that there is a lot that you can do to help yourself in a divorce. There are simple steps that you can take to prepare yourself for the process.

1. The first step it to decide whether you are satisfied that your marriage is over.
2. The second step is to consult with an attorney about your rights.
3. The third step is to make temporary arrangement for yourself and your children.
4. The final step is to take a deep breath and begin the legal process of separation.

You should know that anything not agreed by you and your spouse will be decided by a judge.

You should know that the judge must enter orders regarding the division of your property, the custody of your children, the support of your children, and any spousal support.

You should know that the law instructs the judge to enter these orders based on what is fair and equitable. This allows the judge wide discretion to do what she thinks is right under the circumstances and she is not strictly bound to take any particular action.

You should know that the process is slow and could take more than a year if you and/or your spouse are hotly contesting the issues.

You should know that we can help you through this long and complicated process.